When it comes to dating, there are no one rule that applies to all. Why? Because all people are different. They have different taste, different background, different preference, different religion, different ethnic background, etc.

Here is a book that helps you with dating Jewish women on JDate and other Jewish Dating Sites.

Here are some of the Tips you’ll find inside the book.

• How to take and pick four photos that say nothing but great things about you.
• How to actually “be yourself” in your profile, and not sound like you’re writing a romance novel.
• Sneaky ways to “accidently” let a woman know that you have other girls in your life, even if it isn’t true,
• How to take a woman out for 30-60 minutes and make her feel like she’s been out with you three times already. Spend no more than $5 on any first date, yet still get the results you’d expect  from taking her to a whopping 4-star dinner and theater show.
• Get the woman to meet you at your place every time, without ever having to drive to see her.  This’ll help you pack in those multiple dates a day if you want.
• Be making out with your date within 30 minutes of meeting, and have her somehow feel it “just happened.”
• Use the “Nice Jewish Boy” stereotype to your advantage.  You’ll fly under the radar and by the time she realizes you’re a wolf, you’re already in the henhouse!
• Know exactly what to say when asked “Are you religious?” The answer could make or break you.

Success with JDate

So, you finally took the plunge and signed up for one of these online dating sites hoping to find someone special. You even filled out your profiles and added your best picture. You’ve defined your criteria for what type of person you are looking for, and you hit your search button and wow. There are several hundred matches. Now what. Where do I start? Do I start with the first person on the list?

If you have too many search results to choose from, the first thing you might want to do is narrow down some of your search criteria. For example, if you are not a smoker, make sure the person you are looking for is not a smoker. If you are not a social drinker, make sure the person you are looking for also enjoys alcohol once in a while. You get the idea. Once you’ve narrowed the search down to something more manageable to under 100 or so, you can start looking at each profiles more carefully.

You are not a vain person for wanting to see what the other person looks like so take a look at all the pictures they’ve posted. Of course, you don’t want to only judge your potential mate just on looks but you’ll agree it’s a place to start. Once you’ve browsed through and found the person you might be interested in, start reading their profiles and mini bio to see if there is anything that intrigue you. It might be some unique hobby that you both have in common. It might be the line of work, it might be the area you both live in, etc.

Depending how serious you are about the internet dating, you may want to start slow with sending out one or two messages to your narrowed down prospects. Or, you can also use the shot gun approach and send out as many as you can and hope someone responds back to you.

OK, so I’m ready to give this internet dating a try. There are just too many choices. Where do I start? Is it better to go more well known large sites or is it better to start at smaller but more niche site?
There are pros and cons to both. Large site has more members, which means when you do a search based on your criteria you will have more people to choose from. The hard part will be trying to narrow down to the few that you really want to engage in communication and ultimately agree to meet in real life. The smaller niche sites may have enough members and some may not, which will limit your choices. However, niche sites are already pre-qualified to what you are looking for. For example, if you are a Christian and you want to find someone who’s also Christian, you can safely assume that the matches you find in that particular niche site is also Christian and they are looking for a Christian as well. Or you are a Latin and you are only looking for other Latins, then you are more likely to have success at sites only caters to Latin. Just another thing to think about.